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		<title>Advice for people wanting to teach in Korea</title>
		<link>http://lao-ocean.com/2007/08/16/advice-for-people-wanting-to-teach-in-korea/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Aug 2007 12:28:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>lao-ocean-girl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of my brother&#8217;s best friend is taking the plunge and coming over to Korea to teach.  He graduated with a History major less than a year ago and has just been hanging out, wanting to travel and experience something new before starting a &#8220;real&#8221; job.  Hmmm, sounds eerily like myself six years ago!  He [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of my brother&#8217;s best friend is taking the plunge and coming over to Korea to teach.  He graduated with a History major less than a year ago and has just been hanging out, wanting to travel and experience something new before starting a &#8220;real&#8221; job.  Hmmm, sounds eerily like myself six years ago!  He had a phone interview recently and asked me for advice.  I didn&#8217;t take too much time thinking about what to say, but wrote what I&#8217;ve come to learn from living here.  I&#8217;m posting the email below to help other newbies that might be interesting in teaching for a year here.  Looking back at this, there&#8217;s a lot more I could have added, but this should give you an idea.  [ ] are comments I&#8217;ve adding while posting this blog entry.</p>
<blockquote><p>I&#8217;m not really sure what they&#8217;re going to ask you [during the interview], since I&#8217;ve only had a phone interview once, and that was for a summer English camp.  Other than hearing your accent, here&#8217;s what I think they might ask you:</p>
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<li>Why do you want to work in Korea?</li>
<li>Have you ever taught children?</li>
<li>How would you discipline a student?</li>
</ul>
<p>Really, I wouldn&#8217;t get too hung up on the interview.  I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ve looked at this page already:  <a href="http://www.eslcafe.com/jobs/korea/index.cgi?" target="_blank" onclick="return top.js.OpenExtLink(window,event,this)">http://www.eslcafe.com/jobs<wbr></wbr>/korea/index.cgi?</a>  As you can see, there are TONS of jobs out there.  Remember, they need YOU, more than you need them.  If you&#8217;re not sure about a school, don&#8217;t rush into it.  As for question you should ask, there are plenty.</p>
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<li><span style="font-weight: bold">How many foreigners work at your school?</span>  (Gives you an idea of how big the school is.  Plus, your co-workers will be a good resource for questions about Seoul, and will help you adapt socially to a new country.)</li>
<li><span style="font-weight: bold">How long have they been in Korea?</span>  (Are they all newbies like you?  That could mean the school is not that good, and they have a high turn around rate.  Are there teachers that have been there for a 2nd or 3rd contract?  If so, that tells you volumes about the school.)</li>
<li><span style="font-weight: bold">How many hours will you be working?  (</span>Does one 50-minute class equal 1 work hour?  Or does 50 minutes equal 50 minutes?  [Meaning, some schools will try to squeeze every last working minute out of you].)</li>
<li><span style="font-weight: bold">Will you be working a split shift?  </span> (<span style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: underline">VERY IMPORTANT</span>.  Sure, you&#8217;re only working 30 hours a week, but a morning and afternoon split shift just wastes your whole day and tires you out.  I would NOT recommend teaching kindergarten students.  [My first year teaching kindergarten was torture!])</li>
<li><span style="font-weight: bold">Make sure overtime is OPTIONAL.</span>  (You don&#8217;t want to be forced to work a 40 hour week when you don&#8217;t want to.  You should get this in writing on your contract.)</li>
<li><span style="font-weight: bold">Can you take your vacation anytime?</span>  (Most likely, they&#8217;ll want you to take one week off in the summer, and one in the winter.  These are the peak vacation seasons, when at least 75% of Koreans have those weeks off.  Remember it&#8217;ll be really expensive to travel during that time.)</li>
<li><strong>How far is the school from your apartment?</strong>  (10-20 minutes by foot is ok, but you don&#8217;t want to travel by subway every day to work.)</li>
<li><span style="font-weight: bold">How big is your apartment</span>?  ( <span style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: underline">IMPORTANT</span>.  The unit of measurement for apartments is called &#8220;pyeong&#8221; or &#8220;pyong.&#8221;  1 pyeong = 3.305 square meters.  Don&#8217;t take an apartment 10 pyeong or less &#8211; that&#8217;s small.  Even if you end up hating Korea, your job, and co-workers, your apartment will be the only place of solitude you have.  If it&#8217;s too small, you&#8217;re really going to hate life.  12 pyeong and up is a decent size for 1 person.  Also, make sure you&#8217;re not sharing your apartment with a co-worker.  You should have a 1 bedroom or studio apartment by yourself.  Sharing an apartment = a cheap school.)</li>
<li><span style="font-weight: bold">Can they send you pictures of the school and apartment?</span>  Schools don&#8217;t usually go to the effort of doing this, but it couldn&#8217;t hurt to ask.  EVERYONE here has a cell phone, and those cell phones have cameras, so it&#8217;d be very easy to snap a couple pictures.  Remember &#8211; most likely, you&#8217;ll be going through a recruiter.  Their job is to place teachers in 5, 10, or 50 schools they have contracts for.  <span style="text-decoration: underline">They get about $500-1500 for each teacher they place in a school.</span>  Most of the time, they&#8217;ve never even visited these school, and that&#8217;s why they probably won&#8217;t be willing to send you pictures of the school or apartment.  This is also the reason why they might be pushy about having you sign a contract right away.  Take your time.</li>
<li><span style="font-weight: bold">Last but not least, ask for the email addresses of your future co-workers.</span>  If it&#8217;s a good school, they should have no problems having you email current teachers to ask about the work conditions there.</li>
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		<title>Secret Birthdays</title>
		<link>http://lao-ocean.com/2007/06/27/secret-birthdays/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jun 2007 18:59:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>lao-ocean-girl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[He doesn&#8217;t write me often, since I usually see him anyway, but when he does, it&#8217;s pretty funny.  Names have been erased for their protection but I&#8217;m sure you can figure out who it is. Jack*sses Everywhere jack*sses. Thanks for reminding me of your jack*ss boyfriend&#8217;s day of emergent jack*ssedness.  He had neglected to remind [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>He doesn&#8217;t write me often, since I usually see him anyway, but when he does, it&#8217;s pretty funny.  Names have been erased <strike>for their protection</strike> but I&#8217;m sure you can figure out who it is.</p>
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<blockquote><p>Jack*sses<br />
Everywhere jack*sses.<br />
Thanks for reminding me of your jack*ss boyfriend&#8217;s<br />
day of emergent jack*ssedness.  He had neglected to<br />
remind me and ******* as we played travel scrabble at<br />
the pool and sat around for three hours.  Also<br />
neglected a little buildup for the event in the week or so before.<br />
Let us find out by web-surfing, which made us feel like jack*sses.<br />
Thanks for your reminder,<br />
Hope sh*t is going well enough for you.<br />
*******</p></blockquote>
<p>Well, the weekend&#8217;s coming up.  You can buy him a drink then.</p>
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		<title>Bring on the oracle</title>
		<link>http://lao-ocean.com/2007/01/25/bring-on-the-oracle/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jan 2007 06:35:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>lao-ocean-girl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I received this random email from Rachael recently, who&#8217;s in Ghana. There was nothing to preface the situation that led up to this email, but it looks like I was added to her mass email list. It&#8217;s not hard to pick up the pieces and figure out what&#8217;s going on: someone stole money from the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I received this random email from Rachael recently, who&#8217;s in Ghana.  There was nothing to preface the situation that led up to this email, but it looks like I was added to her mass email list.  It&#8217;s not hard to pick up the pieces and figure out what&#8217;s going on: someone stole money from the office where she works, and it was returned.  It&#8217;s just amazing to see what completely different worlds we&#8217;re living in. </p>
<blockquote><p>So it turns out the one million magically appeared in the<br />
secretary’s desk this morning. She noticed it about 9am, when<br />
almost all the staff was in the office (save me and one other<br />
member – innocent, naturally).  The money was not in the desk<br />
when she closed the office yesterday evening at 5pm.  The<br />
messenger boy and the cleaning ladies hold the keys.  They are<br />
the prime suspects.</p>
<p>No one knows who took the money, but the threat of the oracle<br />
obviously made an impact.  Most of the staff is still demanding<br />
the ritual be performed so we can determine who the thief was<br />
(is).  I am amazed at the steadfast belief in voodoo (ju ju, as<br />
they call it here).  I don’t know if my boss will follow<br />
through. I’ll keep you posted.</p>
<p>I’m a bit disappointed that I don’t get to be involved in the<br />
oracle, but I’m relieved the secretary has her money back.  Her<br />
family is using it to buy cement for their home.  She was<br />
rejoicing this morning. Meanwhile, the innocent staff members<br />
are feeling anxious. Someone among us can’t be trusted, and<br />
that’s not a good feeling.</p>
<p>I’ll let you know if there are any more developments.</p>
<p>Rachael</p>
<p>PS.  Spent the day in the field this morning. We traveled to a<br />
village where they are trying to change a customary law<br />
regarding the dowry system.  There is an increase in bachelors<br />
in this area because they simply can’t afford to offer 4 cows to<br />
their in-laws in exchange for their bride. The village is trying<br />
to get the dowry down to 2 cows. On our way home, we passed<br />
three women carrying crates of beans on their heads.  Since we<br />
were in a pick-up truck, we were able to offer them a ride to<br />
where they were going. Turns out they were walking to the mill<br />
to grind their beans, 17 kms away.  Had we not picked them up,<br />
they were in for a 32km walk.  The sun was already setting when<br />
they began their journey.  I’ve been in Ghana for 4 months, and<br />
the heat, garbage and beliefs don’t shock me like they used to.<br />
Or at least I think that until I come across situations like the<br />
one today.</p>
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		<title>This could be you</title>
		<link>http://lao-ocean.com/2006/12/17/this-could-be-you/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Dec 2006 09:42:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>lao-ocean-girl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ras has been in Korea for about a week now, and spent a couple days catching up with friends in Kangneung. I received this from him today: i&#8217;m in myongdong with reardon right now, watching crazy ajumas overturning a street vendor&#8217;s table. good stuff. I hope Reardon is a little more cautious, or THIS could [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ras has been in Korea for about a week now, and spent a couple days catching up with friends in Kangneung.  I received this from him today:</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>i&#8217;m in myongdong with reardon right now, watching crazy ajumas overturning a street vendor&#8217;s table.  good stuff.</strong></p>
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<p>I hope Reardon is a little more cautious, or THIS could happen to him.</p>
<div style="text-align: center"><img src="http://static.flickr.com/135/324674266_2d902cfe66_o.jpg" /></div>
<p>&#8230;as it did with a normally mild-mannered blogger.</p>
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		<title>kimchi wishes and dok ddong jip dreams!</title>
		<link>http://lao-ocean.com/2006/08/22/kimchi-wishes-and-dok-ddong-jip-dreams/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Aug 2006 11:51:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>lao-ocean-girl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[While in Bangkok, I&#8217;m going to get two root canals re-done&#8230; sewasdee krap! sperma lou and i are now photoshopping our dive photos.&#160; we will then start a flickr acct. and alert all.&#160; we fly to sipadan on tuesday!!!&#160; hopefull lots of sharks and sea-shit.&#160; how is razzy pride?&#160; i never see him online.&#160; busy [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While in Bangkok, I&#8217;m going to get two root canals re-done&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>sewasdee krap!</p>
<p>sperma lou and i are now photoshopping our dive photos.&nbsp; we will then start a flickr acct. and alert all.&nbsp; we fly to sipadan on tuesday!!!&nbsp; hopefull lots of sharks and sea-shit.&nbsp; how is razzy pride?&nbsp; i never see him online.&nbsp; busy with the japolese?&nbsp; when we return from sipppy dan, we are doing some exploritory dives with a friend here that owns a dive shop.&nbsp; you would have shit your pants in lembeh strait.&nbsp; many fab lil creatures to photograph.  </p>
<p>NOW, as far as thailand goes, do NOT be afraid to get enormous white choppers that do not fit in your mouth.&nbsp; you can always get collagen in your lips to balance them.&nbsp; when people look at you, their first impression should be, &quot; she really likes teeth&quot;.  </p>
<p>i&#8217;m just about to look at your website.&nbsp; ciao ciao.</p>
<p>regards,</p>
<p>noodles</p>
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<p>Noodles and I, we&#8217;re both teeth people, and can appreciate a good set of pearly whites.&nbsp; There were times when Noodles would describe teeth that he&#8217;d seen that were brown, black with rot, and spotted with green algae&#8230; we would both throw up a little in our mouths.</p>
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		<title>From Chopsticks</title>
		<link>http://lao-ocean.com/2006/08/16/from-chopsticks/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Aug 2006 07:58:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>lao-ocean-girl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I miss him too&#8230; MZZZ ST. GORILLAMILK, (me) THANKS A BIL FOR THE UPDATES&#8230;.. M. APPRECIATED.&#160; SPERMA, CASHEW AND I JUST GOT BACK FROM N. SULAWESI TODAY.&#160; TRULY F.A.N.T.A.S.T.I.C. DIVING AND FUN.&#160; SHARKS, SEA TURTLES AND NUDIS (nudibranch) ON EVERY DIVE.&#160; WAH WAH WEE WAH.&#160; ANYHOO, SPERMA AND I HAVE TO DO A VISA RUN [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I miss him too&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>MZZZ ST. GORILLAMILK, (me)</p>
<p>THANKS A BIL FOR THE UPDATES&#8230;.. M. APPRECIATED.&nbsp; SPERMA, CASHEW AND I JUST GOT BACK FROM N. SULAWESI TODAY.&nbsp; TRULY F.A.N.T.A.S.T.I.C. DIVING AND FUN.&nbsp; SHARKS, SEA TURTLES AND NUDIS (nudibranch) ON EVERY DIVE.&nbsp; WAH WAH WEE WAH.&nbsp; ANYHOO, SPERMA AND I HAVE TO DO A VISA RUN SO WE ARE TRYING TO HIT SIPADAN AND M. BORNEO FOR SOME MORE WORLD CRASS DIVING AND HOPEFULLY SOME ORANG BADGERING.&nbsp; HOPE YOUR SUMMER IS GOING WELL.&nbsp; I DO NOT MISS KOREA OR THE KUN(san).&nbsp; I DO MISS YOU AND YOUR KHMER ROUGE LIL SELF.&nbsp; YOU TOO JAPWAN (Raswan).&nbsp; OH, MY COMPUTEY CRASHED.&nbsp; HEE HEE.&nbsp; </p>
<p>REGARDS,<br />CHOPSTICKS THE FAG</p>
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		<title>Email I received</title>
		<link>http://lao-ocean.com/2006/08/13/email-i-received/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Aug 2006 08:51:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>lao-ocean-girl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My friend is living in a weird situation: &#34;I don&#8217;t really like using my landlady&#8217;s computer.&#160; Basically I wait until she isn&#8217;t home because although we have to share a kitchen and bathroom, I don&#8217;t like being up here when she&#8217;s home.&#160; She is 50 years old, single with a dog, has the cremated remains [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My friend is living in a weird situation:</p>
<blockquote><p>&quot;I don&#8217;t really like using my landlady&#8217;s computer.&nbsp; Basically I wait until she isn&#8217;t home because although we have to share a kitchen and bathroom, I don&#8217;t like being up here when she&#8217;s home.&nbsp; She is 50 years old, single with a dog, has the cremated remains of 2 of her cats in the kitchen and the cremated remains of her last 3 dogs in the guest bedroom upstairs, and is basically looking for company.&quot;</p>
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